Reaching out to a death doula is probably something you've never done before. It's natural to have questions about what working together looks like.
Whether you're planning ahead after a diagnosis, supporting someone you love, or navigating a difficult transition, my goal is to make the process feel clear, comfortable, and centered around your needs.
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Our first conversation is simply a chance to get to know one another. We can talk on the phone or meet virtually – whatever feels easiest for you.
During our conversation, you'll have the opportunity to share your situation, ask questions, and learn more about how a death doula can support you. We'll talk about your priorities, and together we'll decide whether working together feels like the right fit. There is no pressure or obligation.
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If you decide you'd like to move forward, we'll schedule a Client Intake Meeting. This meeting typically lasts between one and three hours and can include anyone you'd like to be part of the conversation, such as family members or other members of your circle of support.
During our time together, I'll learn more about your story, your values, and what matters most to you. We'll discuss your goals, identify which services will be most helpful, and create a personalized plan that reflects your unique needs. Together, we'll determine how often you'd like to meet and the level of support that feels right for you.
We'll also complete the necessary paperwork, including a Client Agreement, liability waiver, and deposit, so that we can officially begin working together. Before we finish, we'll schedule our next session.
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No two journeys are the same. Some people want support with advance planning after a diagnosis. Others need guidance during caregiving, companionship near the end of life, or bereavement support after the death of someone they love.
Our work together will evolve as your needs change. Sessions may include education, practical planning, emotional support, family meetings, resource referrals, legacy work, vigil planning, or simply having a calm, compassionate person to walk alongside you.
You don't have to figure everything out at once. We'll take it one step at a time.
If you contact me to schedule your free consultation, you can expect to hear back from me within 24 hours to arrange a time that works for both of us.
If, during our consultation, you decide you're ready to move forward, we can often schedule your Client Intake Meeting before we end our call.
My goal is to make getting started feel as simple and stress-free as possible.
There is no 'right' time to begin working with a death doula. Some people reach out soon after receiving a serious diagnosis. Beginning earlier gives us the opportunity to build a relationship over time, explore your wishes thoughtfully, and make plans at a comfortable pace. In these situations, we might meet weekly, monthly, or whenever you need support.
As circumstances change and the end of life draws nearer, many people choose to meet more frequently. During this time, I can provide additional guidance, practical support, and a steady presence for both you and those who care about you.
Whether we work together over many months or only a short time, my role is to meet you where you are and provide the support you need, when you need it most. You don't have to know exactly what you need before reaching out. We'll begin with a conversation and take it one step at a time.
The free consultation is designed exactly for this. We'll figure it out together.
LET'S DISCUSS YOUR NEEDS